What can I expect if I join?
The participants of the group are encouraged to implement ideas such as positive reinforcement, with a focus on becoming an assertive parent, instead of adopting a more passive or aggressive parenting style.
“It’s not about right or wrong or penalising dads for their choice of parenting styles. It’s about making improvements and feeling good enough, which helps you mentally because there isn’t the pressure of trying to be this perfect parent,” said Dom.
“We make a point quite early on in our groups that this isn’t a classroom, and we aren’t teachers. We hold the space, introduce the subjects, get a discussion going and as the weeks go on, we step back, so the dads can step forward. We want everyone to have a voice.”
The pandemic changed the way most parent groups were delivered. While this may have impacted engagement and participation in other circumstances, the group found that the virtual offering led to an increase in the number of dads wanting to participate.
“The first group had dads from across south London. Had it been face to face, we never would’ve got the range of diverse people with different experiences,” explained Dom.
“Working with dads from different backgrounds, whether that be socio-economic, religious or cultural, was brilliant. There were dads with several different parenting approaches or personal circumstances, all together in one virtual community. They all had one thing in common, they recognised they needed some support.”
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